If I ever see you again, it will be too soon!

I love Beyonce's song Irreplaceable. Many women can identify with the lyrics. Some of us have reached the point of no return when a relationship breaks us and we then become deaf, dumb and blind to a man we would have previously laid down our life for.

When self preservation kicks in and a woman has to fight for her sanity, fight for her pride, fight for her children, fight for her money and whatever else has been stripped away from her, the man in question says to the woman I didn't know you could be so cruel, I didn't realise you were so heartless, I'm surprised at how cold you've become.

Well the decision to put yourself first can be very unsentimental.